The four stages of love i just made up :D, agree or not?

I don't know for sure. I agree with the part tht says you should be happy and secure in urself rather than depending on someone else but i dont know if security is the beginning of love. Do you mean to say that people fall in love only with those who seem secure and confident. I have seen cases where people fall in love with timid people for various reasons (opposites attract, protective instincts etc etc ). How do you explain that with this theory? However, i like your theory as a whole and i think its a very healthy view.